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Pros And Cons Of Watching Porn With Your Partner

Adult fun is great when you’re on your own. It gets you off, and you’re feeling relaxed and fulfilled. But, it would be way better if you had someone to share it with, and maybe things are gonna end up differently.

The following article will tell you all the pros and cons of watching porn with your partner as a new way to spice up your relationship and take sex to the next level of excitement.

Different Kinds of Adult Fun

Porn is a classic way of releasing the tension, but lately, it has become quite predictable and somewhat boring. The actors look perfect, they orgasm multiple times, and they seem as if they are having the time of their lives. That’s rarely true, but they are good at their jobs. But, porn is scripted, and reality is quite different.

There are other kinds of adult fun and their popularity is growing lately. Take for instance the popular cam sites where girls from all around the world are having fun and simply going with the flow. No boundaries, and definitely no script. If they feel like live streaming at the moment they’ll do it. If you want to feel more natural while having fun with your partner, check them out as well, and maybe leave a nice tip for them.

Pros of watching porn with your partner

You’ll get closer to each other

That’s right, porn can bring you closer together. As partners, we rarely talk about sex, and most of the time we just go with the flow. Other times, we’re too afraid to tell our partner what we like or dislike, for fear of being rejected. Porn is a great way to show them your desires, without actually talking. Simply put on your favorite video, and observe how your partner will react.

After your couple session, you can both discuss those topics more openly, and without fear. Who knows, maybe you’ll bring your sex experience to a whole new level, and you could’ve done that ages ago if you just sat down in front of the computer together.

Speed up foreplay

Watching porn often leads to other kinky stuff. If you’re bored of quickies on your couch, or kitchen counter, then things are about to change. Simply take the time off and lay down on your bed, put on some good porn, and proceed to touching, kissing, rolling, turning… in no time, you’ll both be completely in the mood, and you won’t even have to try too hard.

Studies have shown that both men and women get aroused only 30 seconds after being shown a porn movie. Just because porn can’t get you off that quickly when you’re alone, that doesn’t mean you won’t get horny when you’re watching with your partner. It’s a completely different situation, and you’ll be having a completely different experience.

Bring cheating down to a minimum

Home is where the heart is, and home is the place where all your sexual fantasies are being fulfilled, and your needs satisfied. If you’re completely satisfied with your partner, on every level and topic, then there will be no need for cheating. Of course, sex should never be the breaking point, but most of the time it can be.

By watching porn together, sharing your thoughts and desires, and later on, fulfilling them in the bedroom (or any other room in the house), lowers the risk of you or your partner finding fulfillment elsewhere.

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Cons of watching porn together

Is porn cheating?

Some partners may consider porn as cheating. But, that’s the biggest mistake that someone can make. We as humans crave variety. While we are completely satisfied with our partner, both physically and emotionally, we still want to have some time to ourselves or to look at other humans.

Porn is a kind of extracurricular activity that we all have, no matter if we are in a relationship or not. It’s fun, and kind of taboo, which makes it ten times hotter and our desire for it is only increasing.

Jealousy

Your partner may get jealous of you watching porn, mainly because of their unhealthy relationship with it. It’s really important for you to have a healthy view of sex, porn, and masturbation because otherwise, things will quickly go downhill in the relationship. Some relationships are staying alive for the sex, and once the partner expresses their growing desires, the other one may get scared of losing them, which also results in jealousy.

Either way, once you’ve built a strong bond with your partner, you can only build your relationship forward, and if you want to spice up your love life in the bedroom, then it’s time to implement porn and have some real fun.

Read Also: Top Signs of Porn Addiction

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