Kissing has always been passionate.
Kissing is a moment where you become one with your partner.
Unfortunately not many know how to kiss?
So to make this world a better kissing place I decided to share 9 secrets to a sensual, passionate & unforgettable kiss?
A kiss is sacred. It is a revelation to your partner. It is an intense exchange of information. That’s why 60% of men and women do not pursue a relationship after a first bad kiss.
But it is not just the way you kiss that matters but also the information your partner receives through a kiss, to be more precise through your saliva which carries your DNA.
Through a kiss, a man can subconsciously assess a woman’s levels of oestrogen and therefore fertility and women can size up the man to see how strong his immune system and health is and how well he looks after himself.
So for a good kiss, you need not just be a good kisser but also take care of yourself healthwise.
If you kiss a person in the right way your kiss can be healing, electrifying, nurturing & even bonding.
Let’s start with the basics
A good kiss starts with a fresh breath
How you do you that?
Certainly not by using chemical oral spray or chewing chemical and unhealthy chewing gum but by maintaining a healthy diet and drinking lots of fresh water and of course by taking care of your mouth hygiene.
That means not just brushing your teeth but also scraping your tongue.
Your tongue is covered with old cells and usually harmless germs which is why you usually have a thick white layer on your tongue. So scrape that it.
When you know that you want to kiss someone try to avoid foods which leave a strong aftertaste such as garlic, onion, coffee, milk or corn.
A soft, smooth, and slightly-moist mouth is ideal for kissing.
Keep your lips soft
Dry lips don’t feel good and are a sign of dehydration.
If you want to soften your lips drink lots of water every day and eat fresh, natural foods.
If you are really in a pinch then quickly run your tongue over your lips and press them together or use an all-natural lip balm.
The right energy
One of the most important thing for a mind-blowing kiss is the right energy between the two of you.
Energy is something you cannot see but only feel. Call it intuition or whatever but never go against that feeling.
If something doesn’t feel right, Don’t do it.
Also, prepare your mind to have loving thoughts towards your partner during a kiss.
This will greatly enhance your kissing experience.
Prepare your mind for this unique union. Connect with the idea that this kiss is sacred.
Kissing is something very intimate and personal. The more you honor it in this way the better it will be.
Anticipate The Kiss
A truly wonderful kiss doesn’t start with kissing but with the anticipation of the kiss.
A crucial part of this stage is your breath.
Here’s an example:
Get really close to your partner, let him feel you hot breathe. Do so by slightly opening your lips. Exchange each other breath.
This can be pretty intense but resist the urge to kiss. Let your fingers play with his hair, her neck, ear or shoulders.
Make your fingers featherlight and go super slow.
Now make your lips super soft and tilt your head to one side.
Now slowly get closer to his lips. Breathe her breath. Open your lips and in slow motion lower your lips featherlight onto his lips.
Be playful now. Back off again. Don’t go right into the kiss now. Be playful and stir up the energy.
By the way, if you don’t have a partner use your palm. I am serious. Using your palm to train your kissing skills is much better than any external object since you can feel on your own body how your lips and tongue feel.
Make the tip of your tongue dance
Slowly introduce the tip of your tongue. For this train your tongue to become ultra soft.
You can use your palm to train this.
Softly lick the bottom lip or your partner’s upper lip while holding her face or his neck. Super lightly bite his
lips and have the tip of your tongue come through sometimes.
Most importantly: Don’t shove your tongue like a sword into her mouth.
Always get in sync with your partner and find the same rhythm.
The sensuous tongue kiss
Once you feel that you two have the same rhythm let your tongue go a little deeper. Softly.
Always move in sync with her. You should use your tongue only as much as she does.
And by the way, make sure to swallow your excess saliva. Nothing worst than having too much saliva all over the face.
The most important thing now: Be playful, never stick to your tongue too deep and always let your tongue be soft.
Spice it up. Mix it up.
Now that you are in the zone keep playing.
Nothing is worse than someone who keeps doing the same thing over and over again.
Switch between different kissing styles. Be sexy and then sweet. Be wild and then soft. And most of all intuitive.
Or go a little crazy and tilt your head from the right side to the left side.
Try a little few light bites or pull back when things are getting really heated and then lean in for another kiss again And don’t be afraid to use your hands to make kissing a full-body experience.
Play with different intensities.
Make your hands featherlight, then use more strength.
The combination of strength in your hands and softness in your lips is amazing.
Don’t take it all too seriously.
If you tried something that just plain failed it’s okay to laugh, to lightly apologize and then maybe try it again.
No one is born perfect.
But if the kiss was epic then don’t be shy to let your partner know.
I hope this little kissing guide was of much help to you.
And remember this beautiful old saying:
“The sound of a kiss is not so loud as that of a cannon, but its echo lasts a great deal longer.”